Is Her Safe? Security Review
3/5
Overall Safety Score
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Verdict: HER is a reasonably safe dating app for its community. It has a smaller user base which means less attention from attackers, but also less security investment than major platforms.
HER is a dating and social app designed for LGBTQ+ women, non-binary, and queer people. It combines dating with community features including events and discussion forums.
Security Ratings Breakdown
| Category | Score | Rating |
|---|---|---|
| Encryption | 3/5 | |
| Privacy | 3/5 | |
| Track Record | 3/5 |
Security Features
- Profile verification
- Community guidelines enforcement
- Block and report features
- Profile visibility controls
Privacy Concerns
- Location data collected for matching
- Sexual orientation data is inherently sensitive
- Community features expose more personal data than pure dating apps
- Smaller company means fewer security resources
Past Security Incidents
- No major data breaches disclosed as of 2025
How to Stay Safe Using Her
- Be cautious about how much personal info you share in community features
- Use video calling before meeting
- Report fake or suspicious profiles
- Consider privacy implications in regions hostile to LGBTQ+ communities
Safer Alternatives
- Bumble (larger platform with women-first design)
- Lex (text-based, minimalist dating for queer community)
Last updated: February 10, 2026